Sunday, June 3. 2007RING FINGERYes, I look down at my keyboard and see something new; a certain adornment on my left hand, courtesy of Fenton. A plan that started out as an attempt to decrease risk-taking has ended up with me taking the biggest risk of all: a lifetime commitment. Fenton and I have already been though a great deal of challenges so I know we have a solid relationship that will stand the test of time. (That was never a factor in my previous reluctance to get married.) I suppose I was more concerned with what marriage would do to our professional lives, and that's why I'm still insisting that we hold off the ceremony until after we graduate. Fenton is giddy with excitement; it's obviously his dream come true. After we tell our folks I'll send a text message to Tammy, my only married friend...I'll need advice! I'll text Rhonda as well, although this won't affect our rooming together next year. The subject of rooming brings the realization that someday Fenton and I will be residing together inside Tree, as husband and wife...and that we'll need other extra rooms as well. Looking at this ring, sparkling in the moonlight, it makes me begin taking the long-range view of things. Trackbacks
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YAY! I'm so happy for you! I can tell you've made a great choice. This is the happiest I've ever seen you as far as I can remember (possible exception being reunited with Fenton after thinking he was dead)! Looking into a future with someone you truly love is definitely one of the most exiting and touching things you can even begin to imagine. I can tell this is a decision you will never, ever regret. Fenton's never going to regret this choice either. You two were made for each other, which is incredible considering you're from two different worlds (literally), which just goes to show how powerful love is. Don't let him go. If you think you're happy now, just wait until you get to say "I do!"
I wouldn't consider a lifetime commitment to Fenton to be the "biggest risk of all" for you. As much as you love him, and as much as he loves you, I don't imagine it being risky at all. I really think you two will be happier than you could imagine, knowing you'll be together forever. I think that'll become a great comfort whenever other aspects of life get rough. My girlfriend and I are getting engaged this summer (we practically are now, but we don't have a ring yet, we've decided that will make it official) and we plan to get married after we both graduate from college. We're going to different colleges, because she wants a two-year degree from a community college and I want a four-year degree from an internationally-accredited school of business at a University. We're both majoring in Computer Information Systems, but my career plan is tougher and requires more training. The good news is, both schools are in the same small city, and we both have morning-centered schedules, so we still get to spend time together Again, congratulations, and may you and Fenton live together forever in perfect bliss! CONGRATS!
Just make sure Rudy doesn't plan Fenton's bachelor party, though;) Good to see, LIndesfarne! I think that the fact that you've taken the time (years?) to know each other beforehand is a good sign (however, of the two lionesses I've been engaged to, one I was with for years, and broke off engagement before wedding, whereas me and Mrs. Lion were only together for a few months before the plunge (talk about risk taking!), so I guess what I'm saying is "do as I say, not as I do!")
I'm surprised that the wedding ring isn't one of those virtual keyboard rings (you know, those high-tech things which sense finger movement and translate it into movement on a virtual keyboard, making a virtual computer?) Mrs. Lion's ring for me was made out of the skeleton of our first kill together - very romantic. (It's a predator thing. Ask your mom.) And, speaking as someone who is almost old enough to be your father I'd have to say you're showing good sense to wait until after graduation, very wise of you. You're definitely starting off on the right foot. (Just don't ask me to picture what a hedgehog/bat child would look like - Domain's recent experience with Francis was enough for me! The only thing I can picture is something out of National Enquirer, but I don't htink you want to hear that. Lindesfarne, don't listen to that last paragraph. I'm certain your kids are going to be healthy and happy. It's not a cross-species thing, Coney's happy and healthy (and hungry), and if DNA is completely transformed, and you can't find anything wrong with Danielle's eggs, then I'd say it is scientifically extremely improbable for an entirely new unidentified species to result from coming from the human side. Perhaps what Francis is is normal for a rabbit/fennec cross. I bet its very rare for that kind of relationship to take place, and so I'd bet there are tons of Francis's species out there. (I think I said all this before, but I'm not sure... Actually I think I did, I remember coming up with a temporary species name... Rabbec or Fennit...)
Don't worry! Even if something unexpected arises when you have children, I'm sure they'll be healthy as any newborn. And no matter what, if I know you and Fenton, you'll love your children no matter what and you'll have a wonderful life together; you, Fenton, your children. It'll be a handful, but hopefully not as hard as some of the babysitting jobs you've had. (How many skunks do R.L. and Angelique look after anyway?) Long engagements are great, but dont make it too long as sometimes things happen and we wouldn't want to see that happen to you two. Be anyways congratuations it's about time.
As for your offspring, well I have no dougt there well be some kind of homo sapiens genes in there, as there seems to be in Francis. Of course with your background in bio-research you should be able to figure out long before you and Fenton have children how they well come out. Of course (and I am just guessing mind you) that you might have a twin in the human domain. And I mean a birth twin, not domain twin. Yeah... I also look at my left hand and see an "adornment"... courtesy of a particularly sharp and incomfortable potato peeler.
Mawidge. Mawidge is whaht bwings us togethah today, that bwessed awangement, that dweam within a dweam. . .
On a serious note. Hoorah! An engagement is that wonderful time when you deside to walk off that plank and into the ocean of perpetual togetherness. That is, if it all works out. . .but I think you two have the right stuff to make it work. hm....flying hedgehogs with human teeth. . .? This is all very sweet. The one thing that disturbs me is the prospect of you loving as spouses inside a sapient tree -- especially one that views Fenton as a kind of son. I know I wouldn't do much in the way of physical love if I knew my mother(-in-law) was watching all the time.
Congratulations! I would have to agree with your family that this has been a long awaited event. We are all happy to see it finally coming to pass
I'm surprised you're waiting until after college to get married...but I suppose if you've been waiting this long what's a few more years, eh? My husband and I got married during college, and I've never regretted it since - in fact, I encourage it Good luck with your plans and everything that comes along with engagement! Fenton and Lindy finally tying the knot? You just know this is going to be a train wreck. They always are...Martha & Ralph, George & Danielle, Kevin & Kell's legal one, all diasters of humorous porportions. But then again, R.L. and Angelique had a good one so who knows. I still wouldn't want to be in the same state when they tie the knot.
But alas poor Fenton, the latest victim of Dewclaw Assimilation as I call it. It seems that anyone who spends a decent amount of time with them ends up related to them by it blood (Corrie, Vin, etc.) or marriage (George, Martha, etc.). They are a lot like a certain other group in that when dealing with the Dewclaws...resistance is futile. Ok First of all:
Martha & Ralph: Uh... think about Ralph's character. George & Danielle: George fell in love with Danielle regardless of the fact that he despised rabbits because he was always mistaken for one. Then, Danielle Kindle died to save George's life. Their first kiss was also their last. Danielle Kendall crossed through the portal and remained omnivorous. Kevin & Kell: One of the first Carnivore/Herbivore marriages in Domain. Bound to bring some controversy R.L. & Angelique: In a way, they're both rats Lindesfarne, you and Fenton will do great. You're both nocturnal insectivores, and nobody minds your fondness of flying. Even the people who have problems with Kevin and Kell being married have no reason to dislike you. There are many in your world who dislike Kevin, because of his physical characteristics and for marrying a carnivore. There are people who dislike Kell, for marrying Kevin. There are those who dislike Rudy... well... partially his attitude I meant their wedding ceremony (although I do see my post was far too vague). K&K plays by almost soap opera rules and a big event like a wedding can easily trigger a series of crazy (and really, really funny) events to occur. George and Danielle's almost wiped out civilization as they know it in Domain.
"I am Lindy of Dewclaw. You will be married. Bachelorhood is futile"?
Its about time! we all know that you would have eventually accepted his proposl but still.... I think you two will be great together and I wish you all the happiness in the World
Dear Lindesfarne,
Congratulations! (And, shame, shame, for telling "us" before your parents! I'm so glad that you're finally able to receive the replies we make to your blog posts (there have been replies made all along, of course). I don't know about you, but as for me, I'll assume that this is a temporary state of affairs; sooner, rather than later, someone will detect the network traffic emanating from the portal, and will decide to intervene. If I'm wrong, and the transmissions (including return transmissions) are as secure as you believe, I'll have no complaints, but in any case I intend to enjoy the situation for however long it lasts. This might be confusing, but I wanted to mention that there are a number of questions I'd like to ask you, which I am going to refrain from asking. As has been mentioned, the life of your family appears on this side as a webcomic. Three panels a day, seven days a week (double sized on Sunday), is hardly enough to even begin to offer a summary of one person's life. To depict even the highlights of your entire family's day to day activities, I'd assume that there's a great deal of abridgement and simplification going on. Asking you to expand on what's in the comic would be an unnecessary and most likely confusing invasion. I might feel like I know you already, but I have to accept that this is our first "meeting" and that what I "know" about you already could easily be wrong. By the same token, I'd hesitate to mention events that have or will take place in the webcomic, of which you would be unaware (if events occurred as depicted), if for no other than reason than that I'd rather not tamper with a good thing. Being able to communicate with you definitely falls into the category of "ain't broken". Incidentally, one of the things I do want to mention is that though this is a "human world", it almost certainly is not THE "human world" from which you originally came, nor that of Nick and Ki (who are also webcomic characters over here). That's all I'll post for now. Word of the two-way breakthrough has been getting around, and I wouldn't be surprised if traffic more than doubles from last week. May those who watch the portal be asleep at the switch. Wishing you the best... |
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